Saturday, September 13, 2008

After doing some tests, I've come to like wordpress a little better. So, for the time being, you can read my updates at nsavides.wordpress.com.

Thanks for stopping by.

Thursday, March 6, 2008

Why I 'll Write (This Blog)

The world is a very busy and hectic place with everyone rushing around trying to achieve things and pay the bills, while finding ways to feel good about life. Nothing wrong with those things when handled properly, but in the rush, the things that make life special and meaningful, things like sincerity, community, and love, can get lost in the shuffle.

I'm tired of seeing so many relationships in my life stay on a strictly corporate level, you know, the kind of interaction where you see someone again and again and you say the same Styrofoam-like phrases to each other. And, it's so discouraging to see our world's failures at meaningful interactions turn into compulsions to consume things, to self-medicate, and to self-destruct.

Going beyond that takes effort. It means being honest about things, facing uncomfortable truths and finding the courage to believe in and fight for things bigger than ourselves. I don't know about you, but if I don't make an extra effort, I will end up keeping to myself and fortifying my defenses, so that it will become even harder for anyone to hurt me again.

Sure it's comforting to know that pain is less likely under certain conditions, but that's a questionable benefit if it means keeping everyone at a safe distance from the real you. That's an awful way to live, and that's a big reason why I'm writing this blog: it's my way to fight against that kind of thing in me and in the world we inhabit.

Yes, I'd like to see this blog lead to new business possibilities as well. Working with creative, authentic individuals and groups to design meaningful things is something I care a lot about, and it would be great if I found like-minded business partners because of this blog. But, if this blog just leads to more thoughtful discussion about how we can make our world less corporate and more magical, then this blog will have served its purpose.